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Post by tuftabis on May 5, 2009 9:59:13 GMT -7
Milosc to cud, ktory zawsze moze sie znow zdarzyc Love is a wonder wich can happen again. Thank you for these nice and true words, Eunice! All the best to you again
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Post by eunice on May 6, 2009 4:17:52 GMT -7
Hi
there is one thing i realized that for Leszek and me we both are foreigners here. we are both floating on the surface of the real life.
without our families here, with different friend circles, busy daytime and lonely night... it is not easy to see through all of those emational things when it happend.
we may always wonder also struggle to deny our need deep inside.
for woman it may be much more easier to fall in love under such circumstance. following the instinct does work in a strange place.
but for Leszek i can always feel that to leave a open raod in front of will make him feel much more comfortable and easy.
i love the world. people can communicate beyond the visible country borders. but the difficulty to really undersatnd and respect each other will still be there.
only we are close enough to share every details in ordinary life. not in a fantasy way but in real. looking into eyes deep.
then we can hear the heart talks.
Milcz i caluj. Don¡¯t talk. Just kiss.
This is not ephemeral chemical thing we can analyse. This is love.
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Post by Jaga on May 6, 2009 9:56:17 GMT -7
Hi there is one thing i realized that for Leszek and me we both are foreigners here. we are both floating on the surface of the real life. Hi Eunice, yes you are right. When I was abroad I noticed how many temporary relationships were formed. Some people take it seriously, some do not. I worry, that Leszek just thinks that his relations with you is just for his time abroad, when he is far from home. He does not plan any future. Does his family live in Poland in the countryside or in the city? If they live in the city, it would be easier for them to accept the foreigner.
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Post by karl on May 6, 2009 10:18:53 GMT -7
eunice
With your feelings and thoughts expressed. It would be very evident to my self, that you have a very healthy out look of realistic view of your situation.
For as you have rightly so expressed. Whilst as a foreigner in a foreign land, with out the support of family, it is so easy to form an emotional attachment to another, for of valid reasons of emotional support and sharing. It would so seem our senses become so much more sharper and yet, then the feeling of lonely ness mixed with fear of being alone.
But, if perhaps the correct person is present. The above becomes just as of the wind, it will be invisible, but felt.
It is my most sincere desire of your happiness to be realized with your man.
I will share of a few tools of survival I carry intrinsically in my person, some have saved my life, some have made me miserable, most have been my life saver.
1} There is no such thing as impossible....
2} But, there are many things most unprobable...
3} For every question of a programme of {why}?
4} The answer that will come to my mind is: {why not}
I say this to you from the heart. For as a person, I will not admit to any defeat until my body is beaten down and un-able to respond.
For if the subject of your heart is in view, then be darn to all odds and take that of what is yours to take....
I realize of my view point is much different then of the American or Polischen. But, I am both of North German and Viking of Dänischen.
If of above you may reject, then of course this is your decision, for of this will I accept. For on this earth, there are only two people that matter in this situation. And that is your self and your man of choice...
Karl
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Post by eunice on May 6, 2009 11:36:43 GMT -7
Hi
I am going to a 2 weeks safari tomorrow. then will go back China. Leszek will also go to Tanzania for a short visiting.
maybe tomorrow a dinner together.
i really don't like to play such a game. if it is game i would like leave it for other girls to play. since i don't take the loneliness as an excuse to be with someone.
it is hurting.
here in Kenya there are around 7000 Chinese. i have friends always caring about me like family. but to be honest, no chinese man here can win my heart i find Leszek more much attract me.
he does not smoke, drink good wine properly, good taste for good music, love do sports regularly... very clean and good smell all the time, gentle but with beautiful eyes directly looking into your heart...
Those are rare i have to say to be fould with Chinese men. but his heart is unpredictable...
I here thank Jaga, Karl, dvd, Renata, Tim, the polish friend i don't know name though...
I will keep on learning polish language on the safari... I will go to Poland to practise polish language when i am ready.
Hope to know more Polish friends.
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Post by eunice on May 22, 2009 1:23:51 GMT -7
Hi! Everyone: This is Eunice. After a long safari i came back. These safaris did not make me feel that i could just forget Leszek and move on. Instead i still love him. I have a very bad habit that always want a explanation for everything. But this time i prefer to leave it to open, to my fate. I am trying to go back to my normal life without him. Welcome to visit Kenya and my country China if i could help. if someone knows a little Chinese welcome to visit my blog about beautiful wildlife here in East Africa. I opened it in these days when i was in darkness. blog.sina.com.cn/cmok2009EUNICE
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Post by eunice on May 23, 2009 14:58:53 GMT -7
Hi: This is Eunice. I need help. There is a Chinese poem i tried to translate into English. Can someone help me translate it into Polish?
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If i leave, i will love you at the end of the world; If you leave, i will love you in my tears;
If spring never come back, i will love you in snow; If the world disappear, i will love you in heaven;
If my body die; i will love you in the fragrance of rose; If your heart die; i will love you in my life;
If my heart die; i stilled loved you, in my past.
Thanks
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Post by Jaga on May 23, 2009 19:04:12 GMT -7
it is a very nice poem:
Gdy ja odejde, bede cie kochac na koncu swiata Jesli ty odejdziesz, bede cie kochac przez lzy
Jezeli wiosna nigdy nie przyjdzie, bede cie kochac w sniegu Gdy ziemia zniknie, bede cie kochac w niebie
Gdy moje cialo umrze, bede cie kochac w zapachu roz, Gdy twoje serce przestanie bic, bede cie kochac moim zyciem (?)
Jezeli moje serce przestanie bic, ja zawsze cie kochalam, dawniej.
(?) the question mark is at the sentence I am not sure I understood it. But it is really a beautiful poem good luck!
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Post by eunice on Jun 5, 2009 8:02:16 GMT -7
Hi! This is Eunice in Beijing.
I came back because i just know there is another Chinese girl who fell in love with a Polish man.
For all i sufferd and experienced i do pray for her and them.
Bez Ciebie jak bez usmiechu, niebo pochmurnieje. Without you like without smile-the sky is dark.
my world is in darkness but i am praying for a little star light.
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Post by Jaga on Jun 15, 2009 22:25:19 GMT -7
Eunice, this is probably a good news for you! Chinese get more Polish language courses A Polish studies department is opening at the University of Pedagogy in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province northeast China. The new Polish studies department at Harbin has received assistance from Gdansk University. Its lecturers will work with the first group of 20 students this coming academic year. The young Chinese will then move for the next four semesters to Gdansk to continue their studies in Poland. Harbin – the tenth largest city in China - has a long tradition of contacts with Poland. Many of the engineers and workers building the Eastern China Railway at the end of the 19th century were Poles. At the beginning of the 20th century two Polish parishes, several schools as well as organizations were established in Harbin. Many tombstones with Polish names can be found till this day at the local cemetery. Polish language has only so far been on linguistic syllabi at Beijing University of Foreign Languages, which recruited freshmen only every four years. But due to the growing numbers of candidates willing to study Polish, the university in the Chinese capital has launched more frequent recruitment, now running every two years. (ss/pg) www.polskieradio.pl/thenews/international/artykul110135_chinese_get_more_polish_language_courses.html
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Post by seal on Jul 24, 2010 14:56:43 GMT -7
Hi Eunice, I am from an asian background and married to a polish man. After i read your story I totally understand your situation. I fell madly in love with Pawel and he made me believe in a dream world with full of love but it was just a fantasy will only last 3 years. I gave all my love, trust and even convince my family that he was the right one for me. I married him last year but unfortunately it didn,t last very long.just after a year of married he decided he want to be with a polish girl and ask me to leave my house and brought the another the polish girl in the house.. I am also heart broken and i even lost interest in living because i felt betrayed. us asian woman we have a different view of family and marriage. all my dreams have shattered and asking myself everyday what is the purpose of my life. I cannot face my parents and myself for believing and trusting my husband. i have done everything learn polish , cook every polish dish and change my life to fit and make him proud of me. But all my efforts was a waste because no matter what you do you will never be one of them. So to avoid disappointment and from being hurt just don't have hope. From my experience it really hurts to give so much love and you don't get the love and respect back. Be strong and all the very best. God Bless!
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Post by indianamike on Jul 24, 2010 21:12:02 GMT -7
This happens no matter if he is French, Polish, or German, he was just a bad one, he could have been Asian, and still have been bad. Bad is bad, no matter where you or your parents came from. Lucky there and still many, like me, a good one, and I am Polish, and married for forty one years, and still happy.
Mike
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Post by seal on Jul 25, 2010 8:46:32 GMT -7
I am very happy that there are man like you Mike. I was just unfortunate but I believe evrything happen for a reason. I only shared my experience to Eunice because we both fell in love a polish man so please we are not generalise. Best wishes... Seal
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Post by seal on Jul 25, 2010 9:28:00 GMT -7
Eunice here its Seal. I love your poem can I borrow your poem please.
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Post by indianamike on Aug 5, 2010 17:18:59 GMT -7
Seal,
Like all men, no two are alike. I am 100 per cent Polish, and think different than many, but I do like women, most of all the Polish women from or in Poland, but I do love all women.
Mike
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