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Post by karl on Jul 25, 2010 9:07:25 GMT -7
You don't need to forgive him, he was wrong, not you. Now go on with your life, and in time, you may find a good one. My wife did, and so can you. Don't give up on all men, along with me, there are still many good ones out there, just keep your eyes open, so you know it, when a good one comes along. Mike Mike You needs be to read the update as written by Arlene, then upon this, to rethink your remarks, Ok? Karl
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Post by seal on Jul 25, 2010 9:11:22 GMT -7
well Arlene, you still need to learn a lot about life. I did get a lot of help thank you. Your swinging party information was not very informative to me because people who believe in love and God will always see the light at the end of the tunnel. I did not lie to noboby I am someone who is grieving from a lot of pain. Ae change woman when she get married her whole life together with her name and she adopt a new identity with a new name. people start knowing her with a new name and when your marriage is breaking from your husband cheat still known by his name. your identity is not something you change whenever you want unfortunately and i wish it was that easy. and to have a divorce is a very long process. Your wound will be there for a very long time and dealing with your feeling and pain is not easy when you loved a person. It would be much easier if there was no love involve. My life is not a game. I pray it does not happen to anyone of you.
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Post by seal on Jul 29, 2010 15:10:16 GMT -7
This message is for Arlene,
YOU HAVE MISUNDERSTOOD ME I AM AFRAID SO DEAR FRIEND. I DID NOT COME HERE TO IF I DID NOT NEED HELP FROM YOU GUYS. YOU THOUGHT THAT THE GIRL WAS MY HUSBAND EX WHICH FIRST MISUNDERSTANDING. SECONDLY YOU ARE ACCUSING ME FOR LYING ABOUT WHAT?? GOD KNOWS WHAT LIE YOU ARE REFERING TOO. THIRDLY YOU ARE SAYING TO ME THAT MY MENTAL CRUELTY FOR MY HUSBAND IS WRONG. GIRL YOU GOT THIS ONE WRONG TOO. I DID SAY "I WAS VERY UPSET AND ANGRY SO I WAS THINKING ABOUT ALL SORTS THINKING AND DOING ARE TO DIFFERENT THINGS. GOD HAS COME TO MY HELP AND HE HAS CARRIED ME FOR THE PAST FEW WEEKS. yOU MUST HAVE HEARD THE STORY ABOUT JESUS FOOTSTEPS!!!! i AM A NONE CATHOLIC BUT I AM A TRUE BELEIVER. ANY TIME YOU WILL NEED HELP I AM HERE TO HELP YOU. I HAVE LEARNT A LOT DURING THESE HARD TIMES AND GOD HAVE PLANS FOR EVERYBODY :-)
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Post by arlene on Jul 29, 2010 17:04:28 GMT -7
This message is for Arlene, YOU HAVE MISUNDERSTOOD ME I AM AFRAID SO DEAR FRIEND. I DID NOT COME HERE TO IF I DID NOT NEED HELP FROM YOU GUYS. YOU THOUGHT THAT THE GIRL WAS MY HUSBAND EX WHICH FIRST MISUNDERSTANDING. SECONDLY YOU ARE ACCUSING ME FOR LYING ABOUT WHAT?? GOD KNOWS WHAT LIE YOU ARE REFERING TOO. THIRDLY YOU ARE SAYING TO ME THAT MY MENTAL CRUELTY FOR MY HUSBAND IS WRONG. GIRL YOU GOT THIS ONE WRONG TOO. I DID SAY "I WAS VERY UPSET AND ANGRY SO I WAS THINKING ABOUT ALL SORTS THINKING AND DOING ARE TO DIFFERENT THINGS. GOD HAS COME TO MY HELP AND HE HAS CARRIED ME FOR THE PAST FEW WEEKS. yOU MUST HAVE HEARD THE STORY ABOUT JESUS FOOTSTEPS!!!! i AM A NONE CATHOLIC BUT I AM A TRUE BELEIVER. ANY TIME YOU WILL NEED HELP I AM HERE TO HELP YOU. I HAVE LEARNT A LOT DURING THESE HARD TIMES AND GOD HAVE PLANS FOR EVERYBODY :-) Hey, Seal! Get over with your broken heart from your husband. You are too serious, I think you need to grow up and deal with broken heart. I have been there and I got over with it. What is matter with you? Leave me alone. Read this message I have posted in previous threads. Get use to it. Polish men do love all kinds of women. Maybe Italians & Latins. 1. But problems are his women have to be exactly like him. Same interests, hobbies, friends and everything same. They have open relationships with others and they go steady as they get along. His females have to control their jealousy or she will lose him. 2. When men or women flirting around with others they don't like it. They have difference interests and different ideas of dating. It is over for them. They called each others they have jealousy problems. Person don't want to shares their loved one with others. 3. When men and women stayed together. They make dates for weekend to get away from children. They don't want someone else which is good marriages or strong couples who want each other only. This is best ideal of couples. 4. There are two kinds of rules of datings. Steady or open relationships. 5. Polish men do freak out when their wives ages and get heavy. They are same women when you married her. Polish men are afraid that their wives will look older like our grandmothers used to look. Back then it was hardships for all Polish women. These ladies do work so hard to keep houses clean and take care of children. These women had to work in farms or offices. Whatever! 6. Now Polish women don't want to be like their mother or grandmothers back then. They wanted to be sexy all the times. They don't want to grow old. They may have Make-Over faces or bodies. Which is dangerous to do? You are Asian Gal, maybe you need to date Asian man for change.
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Post by indianamike on Aug 5, 2010 18:01:12 GMT -7
But Arlene, I don't mean anything bad, but how would you know so much on marriage and men, when you have never been married. It would be like me trying to tell you how to fly a plane, without ever flying a plane myself. Don't let this upset anyone.
Mike
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Post by seal on Aug 6, 2010 14:47:03 GMT -7
But Arlene, I don't mean anything bad, but how would you know so much on marriage and men, when you have never been married. It would be like me trying to tell you how to fly a plane, without ever flying a plane myself. Don't let this upset anyone. Mike This is very well said Mike. OMG finally I got some decent respond with some extent of thoughts.....
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Post by seal on Aug 6, 2010 14:54:00 GMT -7
You are Asian Gal, maybe you need to date Asian man for change. [/quote] Oooooh Why are you saying that I am from an asian background? tell me how to attach a picture, I will show you then you tell me if this is your culture. I will be so interested to know your answer after seeing what I saw that day when I came back from work!!! Please
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Post by arlene on Aug 6, 2010 15:49:02 GMT -7
But Arlene, I don't mean anything bad, but how would you know so much on marriage and men, when you have never been married. It would be like me trying to tell you how to fly a plane, without ever flying a plane myself. Don't let this upset anyone. Mike You have reputation of insulting women and your wife. And your Pen Pals in here. I don't know how your wife put up with your behaviors.
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Post by arlene on Aug 6, 2010 16:04:29 GMT -7
You are Asian Gal, maybe you need to date Asian man for change. Oooooh Why are you saying that I am from an asian background? tell me how to attach a picture, I will show you then you tell me if this is your culture. I will be so interested to know your answer after seeing what I saw that day when I came back from work!!! Please [/quote] You Are too self-center. Don't try to be Polish. Just get along with others nationalities. Maybe you should go to Polish Forum. They have problems like you. You will understand how Polish feels.
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Post by indianamike on Aug 6, 2010 20:57:50 GMT -7
Arlene, I asked that you don't get upset, but like I told you, you can't tell someone how to drive a car, when never driven one yourself. Cool down and read, and re-read all the messages before you post. You know we all love you, and care for you, so please don't get upset.
Mike
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Post by seal on Aug 7, 2010 13:39:38 GMT -7
Arlene,
I thought I am signed up on a polish forum!!!!!!! which forum do you think you are on he he he he... I just post a knew topic about how polish "gals" as you say meaning girls feel so insecure when they are around in the open world!!! please take a look and please add your comments.The original comes from a polish friend of mine!!
I am very multi cultural and speak 4 languages plus learning polish.. so how do you mean as self centered have no idea:) well i have no problems arlene I am trying to understand a culture that some low people have tried to make be believe its polish culture. I love my polish friends and family who are fortunately lovely people so I won't let these two low life insulting polish culture because I am married to a polish man and I refuse to accept that it is normal behaviour. I would not stop until i am proven right. Even if take me to expose the pictures..
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Post by arlene on Aug 7, 2010 17:20:56 GMT -7
Arlene, I thought I am signed up on a polish forum!!!!!!! which forum do you think you are on he he he he... I just post a knew topic about how polish "gals" as you say meaning girls feel so insecure when they are around in the open world!!! please take a look and please add your comments.The original comes from a polish friend of mine!! I am very multi cultural and speak 4 languages plus learning polish.. so how do you mean as self centered have no idea:) well i have no problems arlene I am trying to understand a culture that some low people have tried to make be't believe its polish culture. I love my polish friends and family who are fortunately lovely people so I won't let these two low life insulting polish culture because I am married to a polish man and I refuse to accept that it is normal behaviour. I would not stop until i am proven right. Even if take me to expose the pictures.. seal I am glad you did sign in Polish Forum, I really like it too. I am mature lady and am old enough to be your mother. I have nephews and nieces around 25 to 40 years old. Yes, I am older lady with experience about cultures and life's too. I don't work with Polish people. I work with lot of different nationalities like African, Spanish, Mexican, Italian, Irish, German and Cuba too. Can't remember all. I did learned their customs and had tried their foods which everybody bring their favorite recipes for holiday parties at works. It was fun. I did bake kolacky for them. They liked them. What I meant being self center is like you wanted to be by yourself or with your friends. No outsiders. I talked to everybody. Some don't talk to people. If I don't talk , I smiled at people even strangers. It doesn't mean I wanted to date them. I can't date everybody I see. You know what I meant. At my age, whoa. I did dated Polish guys but it was my worst dates I ever had. I have dated only Italian, Spanish and Chinese men. I like these men. They are romantic. I find Polish men do lacked romantic feeling. You are lucky to married Polish husband. I do loves going to Polish Wedding if someone in my family getting marry. They do make best Wedding and music. I do love Polish foods too. I don't eat at home. I eat American foods, pizza and so. I think you are getting over with your problems. If you both are staying together. Good Luck. Don't forget no one is perfect. We have to accept it. If man or woman beat someone. It is over. Think about it. Have A Good Weekend. I can't tell you what my name is at Polish Forum. I know you will like it. It is more your age group.
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