what is relationship???

[seal]

Well Reading Jaga's new topic:about new generation has just made me realise something happen to me today.

I am seperated from my husband its been around 3months now. i was very surprised what happened to me today. i was at my work place and my husband's friend came to there and he has totally ignores me. he refused to even look at me or to say hi. I was so shocked of his reaction that I just laughed. It was not long ago I was cooking and him and his girlfriend was eating in my house. now i am seperated I am noboby. So does relationship exist just because i was with his friend and now because we are seperate I am nobody. Its not the first polish person from my husband side that has behave this way towards me. I find it so funny because this makes me think that these people I was talking , laughing and eating together was just a pure act. His cousin who used to kiss my hand and make so much fun and cannot even look at me to say hi. For me I have got nothing against his family and I will say hello and even send christmas wishes to them even though I am not with him. This how I was brought up and values, morales and relationship are so important in life.
Is there an explanation for such behaviour???

please share what you think, thanks
seal

[Jaga]

Seal,

I can assure it this is not a typical "polish behavior". Maybe Polish people here, one narrow community feel so close together that they ignore anybody else. I am Polish and I, nor anybody from my family, would not do anything like that.
I think this guy did not really ignore you. He was trying to show very hard that he does not care. But in reality he was doing it deliberately, he tred to hurt you. If he really ignored you, he would treat you casually.

[seal]

Hi there, so glad to hear from you guys. Thanks Jaga.

I really hope its just that. Please don't get me wrong I was not generalising all Polish people. I only know Polish people through my husband and its funny how all these people are behave strangely when they don't even know me. Well, i will keep you updated if any funny incident happen to me. I am sure there are lovely polish people out there it was just my luck to have known the worst one(my husband).

Cheers friends:)

[geniafl]

He is acting as a friend of your husband not yours. Was he a friend of your husband before you were married? I find it strange he would not say "hi" just to acknowledge your presence. He didn't have to talk with you if he didn't feel comfortable doing so. I don't think it's a Polish people thing as I see this in office politics a lot.

[arlene]

Yes, Geniafl!

You are right. I think Seal isn't tell us the truths.